Empowering LGBTQ Travellers: Tips for Safe and Fun Journeys

Have you ever found yourself staring longingly at Instagram or Tiktok and thinking, 'I'd love to go there - but I'm not sure I can'. You're not alone. Time and time again we all have to take the not-inconsiderable step of researching whether we are safe in a destination, before getting excited about what the world of travel can bring for us.

Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a month-long backpacking adventure, it is essential to prioritize safety and make sure you have all the information you need so you can let your hair down without fear when you're traveling the world.

This guide will provide you with some practical tips we use every trip to make sure we can travel safely, and have fun, and even explore parts of the world we once felt were far beyond the safe havens of Gran Canaria and Sitges and out of reach.

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Research Your Destination

Before you pack your bags, or even before booking, take some time to research your destination. And definitely don't turn up the airport without some understanding of what local laws stipulate and what culture allows, as following these will steer you clear of unwanted looks and attention.

• Know the Laws: Some countries have strict laws against LGBTQ individuals. Research the legal status of LGBTQ rights in your destination. Websites like ILGA (International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association) provide up-to-date information. Don't think this means you can't visit these countries, but be super mindful of what apps you use and public displays of affection when you're here. You may feel more comfortable and safer not visiting these destinations at all.

  
  

• Cultural Norms: Familiarize yourself with the local customs. In some places, public displays of affection may not be accepted despite the legal situation being more relaxed. Understanding these norms can help you avoid uncomfortable situations, even in countries you might otherwise consider safe.

  
  

• LGBTQ-Friendly Areas: Identify neighbourhoods or areas known for being LGBTQ-friendly. Cities like San Francisco, Berlin, and Sydney have well-known and vibrant LGBTQ communities that can enhance your travel experience, but even in places without a well established LGBTQ community you can often find amazing pockets of queer culture.

  
  

Connect with Local LGBTQ Communities

Connecting with local LGBTQ communities can provide valuable insights and support during your travels.

• Social Media Groups: Join LGBTQ travel groups on platforms like Facebook, Instagram, or Reddit. These groups often share tips, recommendations, and personal experiences. Even individual bloggers or social media users can be super valuable sources of information.

  
  

• Meetup Events: Look for local LGBTQ events or meetups. Websites like Meetup.com can help you find gatherings where you can meet locals and fellow travellers.

  
  

• LGBTQ-Friendly Accommodations: Consider staying at LGBTQ-friendly hotels or hostels. These places often have a welcoming atmosphere and can provide recommendations for local attractions. Booking.com and Hotels.com both have a 'LGBTQ Friendly' badge they add to listings they consider safe and comfortable.

  
  

Stay Informed About Local Events

Many cities host LGBTQ events, festivals, and pride parades throughout the year.

• Check Local Calendars: Websites like Eventbrite or local tourism boards often list upcoming events. But it's not only your yearly pride events to look out for, many venues will host LGBTQ-focused nights year round.

  
  

• Join Tours: Consider joining LGBTQ-focused tours. These tours often provide a unique perspective on the local culture and history while ensuring a safe environment.

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Keep Important Documents Handy

Having your important documents organized can save you a lot of stress during your travels. It might sound insane, but the amount of times we panic because we're short of battery and need a digital ticket is insane:

• Digital Copies: Make digital copies of your passport, ID, and any important travel documents. Store them in a secure cloud service or email them to yourself.

  
  

• Emergency Contacts: Keep a list of emergency contacts, including local LGBTQ organizations, hospitals, and your country's embassy or consulate, especially in countries that rank as safe but can in pockets be a little sketchy (I'm looking at you Hungary).

  
  

• Travel Insurance: Consider purchasing travel insurance that covers health issues and emergencies. This can provide peace of mind during your trip.

  
  

Be Mindful of Your Surroundings

Staying aware of your surroundings is essential for any traveller, especially LGBTQ individuals. This might sound a bit bleak but I'd tell everyone this regardless of sexuality or gender identity. You could be in the safest city in the world and one wrong turn might lead you to a dodgy area so:

• Trust Your Instincts: If a situation feels uncomfortable or unsafe, trust your gut and remove yourself from it.

  
  

• Avoid Risky Areas: Stay away from neighbourhoods known for crime or hostility towards LGBTQ individuals. Research local safety tips before heading out.

  
  

• Travel in Groups: Whenever possible, travel with friends or fellow LGBTQ travellers or known allies. There is safety in numbers, and it can make your experience more enjoyable.

  
  

Embrace the Local Culture

Traveling is about experiencing new cultures. Embrace the local customs and traditions while being true to yourself.

• Dress Appropriately: Be mindful of local dress codes. In some cultures, dressing conservatively may be necessary to avoid unwanted attention.

  
  

• Learn Basic Phrases: Knowing a few key phrases in the local language can go a long way. It shows respect for the culture and can help you navigate interactions more smoothly.

  
  

• Participate in Local Activities: Engage in local customs, whether it’s trying traditional foods or participating in cultural festivals. This can enrich your travel experience. It also massively lowers your impact on over-touristed areas, and allows you to travel more ethically - especially if your tourist cash is getting into the hands of LGBTQ-communities, or locals more generally.

  
  

Stay Connected

Staying connected with friends and family back home can provide support during your travels.

• Share Your Itinerary: Let someone know your travel plans, including where you will be staying and your daily itinerary.

  
  

• Regular Check-Ins: Schedule regular check-ins with friends or family. This can be a simple text or video call to let them know you are safe.

  
  

• Use Technology Wisely: Utilize apps that can help you stay connected, such as WhatsApp or Signal. These apps offer secure messaging options. If you're in a country with a poor record on LGBTQ+ safety then consider stepping away from apps (like Grindr etc) that mark you as a member of the community as sometimes these can be used to ensnare unsuspecting LGBTQ-travellers.

  
  

Celebrate Your Journey

Every travel experience is unique. Celebrate your journey and the memories you create along the way.

• Document Your Travels: Keep a travel journal or blog about your experiences. This can be a great way to reflect on your journey and share it with others.

  
  

• Share Your Stories: Share your experiences with friends and family. Your stories can inspire others to travel and explore the world.

  
  

• Reflect on Your Growth: Traveling can be a transformative experience. Take time to reflect on how your travels have impacted you and your perspective.

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Traveling as an LGBTQ individual can be a rewarding experience filled with adventure and discovery. By taking the necessary precautions and embracing the local culture, you can create unforgettable memories. Remember to stay informed, connect with local communities, and prioritize your safety. With these tips in mind, you are ready to embark on your next journey with confidence and joy. Safe travels!